Temperament

Are you really happy with you and your life? Have you noticed that your life has many of the same ups and downs? As teenagers we are in search of finding who we are? And What is real Happiness? As we approach 18 or 21 years old we have had the apron stings cut and have donned our wings to fly to our own unique happiness.

The world tells us that Drinking, Drugs, Parties, Girls, Boys, and lots of other worldly things make us happy. And WOW we wake up after those parties and fun events and look back at those times and Ask ourselves, What Happened? Was I Happy? What are the Consequences of those moments of Adult Like Happiness? 

Sin and Things that we know are Wrong are fun fun fun and We have a lot of Pleasure when doing them. Sins and Wrong Doings are a pleasure for a season, just like spring, fall, winter, summer and autumn. But, like the seasons they too will pass. We remember after the fun stuff is over that we are alone again and wonder if this is the endless circle of having fun, feel alone and having problems. 

Most all people go through this type of circular thinking process and then may add in information about What Does God Want Me To Be Doing??? Some people make a decision to follow God's Path and some continue to follow the Circular Path going from fun and sin to problems and severe consequences. Most times the Consequences become more and more severe as they make negative progress toward their goal of finding happiness and fun in the wrong un-Godly manner. God is actually telling you that you have made the choice to seek sinful un-Godly ways to become more social, fun, sexual, drug using, and partying and he sends many WAKE UP calls (consequences) so that you will make the right path choices the next time. 

The Search to find out Who We Are? 

This process begins around 15 for most people and continues throughout your lifetime until you truly find out or figure out who you are. Some people figure it out at the age of 17 years old and others don't figure it out till they are 50 Years old and then there are those who never get it.

Finding out our Temperament? 

First of all, a Temperament is an individual inborn God created style of needs that we must fulfill. Temperaments are formed while we are in the womb and never never change after birth. Personalities do however, change and are developed after we are born. A Personality is the mask that we wear and the behaviors that we learn after we are born. Psychologists, Behaviorists, Behavior Analysts, Psychiatrists, Mental Health Counselors, Guidance Counselors etc. observe behaviors and give diagnoses that are based on the behavior. Then they use medications and therapeutic interventions to help the patient/client overcome or stop certain behaviors.

Temperaments are a lot different. Temperaments were given to each of us while we were in the womb of our mothers'. God gave these temperaments to us so that we could meet OUR Specific needs wants and desires. God also wanted all mankind to get along and love each other. God also wants us to be happy, joyful and peaceful.

Do You want to be Happy, Joyful, and Peaceful all of the time?

The perfect pathway for all people to enjoy the Joyful and Peaceful lifetime was already placed within our reach, but, we need to know WHO WE REALLY ARE. The main part of who we are is OUR TEMPERAMENT. We were predestined and Planned to be the Temperament of Person that we are and when we don't fulfill those specific needs we become frustrated, angry, hateful, spiteful, disenchanted, upset, fall in and out of relationships, search for new more fun things to do, become depressed, sad and sometimes suicidal. When we know WHO WE REALLY ARE and WHAT INBORN NEEDS WE HAVE then we know what our Wonderful Strengths are and how to improve our weaknesses.

Did you ever wonder how some married couples have been happily married for 50 years, or how someone is thrilled going to work at the same place everyday for 20 years. Or that some people just seem to always be the centers of attraction at the outing? Or how could someone like to work as a Dentist? or a Doctor? or an Attorney? or an Accountant? or a Lawn Person? or a Pilot? or a Street Sweeper? or a Worm Picker? or a Mechanic? or an Actor? and then how many people, including yourself really hate getting up to go to work, or hate coming home after work, or just don't like to do fun things like you do? And how many people including yourself have you seen chasing their tail, you find a relationship and it begins just fine and then a short time later ends up with many problems, so you move on to the next one and the next one, because the same almost identical problems happen each time. Things like Personality Conflicts, Infidelity, Differences of all sorts.

The people that are aware of their Temperaments needs, strengths, and weaknesses are happy and enjoy their Peaceful, Happy, and Wonderful Lives almost all of the time.

ARE YOU READY TO FIND OUT WHO YOU REALLY ARE???

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